Workplace Bullying - Tips and Strategies to Protect Yourself

When someone at work is targeting you, protecting yourself matters as much as proving your case — your health, your reputation and your job security all need looking after at the same time. Here's how to do all three at once.

Protect your evidence, not just your feelings

The most concrete form of self-protection is a solid, independent record of what's happening. Log incidents as they occur — date, time, what was said or done, who witnessed it — and store that log somewhere outside work systems, since access to your work email or laptop can disappear quickly if things escalate. A tool like Bully Log is useful here because it timestamps entries automatically, giving you a record that's provably contemporaneous rather than something that could be dismissed as reconstructed after the fact. Save copies of relevant emails, messages and performance documents too, ideally forwarded to a personal account rather than left sitting only in your work inbox.

Protect your reputation while the situation is unresolved

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Bullies sometimes work by trying to make you look difficult, unreliable or overly sensitive before you've said anything formally. Counter this quietly: keep your own work visibly on track where you can, confirm agreements and instructions in writing ("just confirming what we discussed…"), and avoid venting about the situation on work chat systems where it can be taken out of context or shared. If your work quality has suffered because of the stress, it's fair to note that in your documentation too — a drop in performance that coincides with documented bullying is relevant context, not something to hide out of embarrassment.

Know your legal protections against retaliation

A common fear is that reporting will make your position worse. Under the Fair Work Act's general protections provisions, taking adverse action against you for exercising a workplace right — including making a genuine complaint about bullying — can be unlawful. That doesn't erase the risk entirely, but it means retaliation isn't something you simply have to absorb in silence: if your hours are cut, you're suddenly excluded further, or disciplinary action appears out of nowhere after you complain, document that too, since it can strengthen rather than undermine your position.

Protect your mental and physical health

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This kind of stress affects sleep, concentration, and sometimes physical health, and it's easy to let that slide while you focus on "the case." Practical self-protection includes:

• Using your Employee Assistance Program if your workplace has one — it's confidential and separate from HR
• Seeing your GP if stress, anxiety or sleep problems are building — a mental health care plan can subsidise psychology sessions
• Telling at least one person outside work what's going on, so you're not carrying it entirely alone
• Setting a boundary on after-hours contact where the bullying happens through email or messages outside work time

Protect your position by knowing your options in advance

Understanding your escalation path before you need it reduces the sense of being trapped. Internally, that's your manager, then HR, then potentially a formal investigation. Externally, the Fair Work Commission can make a stop-bullying order for ongoing behaviour, the Fair Work Ombudsman can advise on your broader rights, and a union — if you're a member — can represent and support you through both stages, generally at no extra cost. If your health is significantly affected, a workers' compensation claim may also be relevant depending on your state or territory scheme, which is worth raising with a lawyer or your union.

Protect yourself by not going it entirely alone

This is general information, not legal advice, and workplace bullying situations vary enough that a quick conversation with your union or an employment lawyer is worth having, even just to understand where you stand. Whatever you do, don't let the isolation that bullying tends to create convince you it's easier to say nothing — a clear, consistent, well-protected record and a support network around you are what put you back in control of a situation that was designed to make you feel like you had none.